dccp: API to query the current TX/RX CCID

This provides function to query the current TX/RX CCID dynamically, without
reliance on the minisock value, using dynamic information available in the
currently loaded CCID module.

This query function is then used to 
 (a) provide the getsockopt part for getting/setting CCIDs via sockopts;
 (b) replace the current test for "which CCID is in use" in probe.c.

Signed-off-by: Gerrit Renker <gerrit@erg.abdn.ac.uk>
Acked-by: Ian McDonald <ian.mcdonald@jandi.co.nz>