drbd: don't start a resync without access to up-to-date Data

In case both nodes are "inconsistent", invalidate would
have started a resync anyways, without a chance to ever
succeed, just filling the logs with warning messages.

Simply disallow that state change,
re-using the SS_NO_UP_TO_DATE_DISK return value.

This also changes the corresponding error string to
"Need access to UpToDate Data" -- I found the
"Refusing to be Primary without at least one UpToDate disk"
answer misleading in some situations anyways.

Signed-off-by: Philipp Reisner <philipp.reisner@linbit.com>
Signed-off-by: Lars Ellenberg <lars.ellenberg@linbit.com>