[MTD] Fix module refcounting in NAND board drivers.

The _board_ driver needs to be mtd->owner, and it in turn pins the
nand.ko module. Fix them all to actually do that, and fix nand.ko not to
overwrite it -- and also to check that the caller sets it, if the caller
is a module.

Signed-off-by: David Woodhouse <dwmw2@infradead.org>