target: pack struct se_task more tightly

Rearrange the fields in se_task to avoid holes.  Also increase the
flags field to 16 bits as we have the space for it, and this makes
adding new flags safer.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Nicholas Bellinger <nab@linux-iscsi.org>