drbd: add lists to find oldest pending requests

Adding requests to per-device fifo lists as soon as possible after
allocating them leaves a simple list_first_entry_or_null() to find the
oldest request, regardless what it is still waiting for.

Signed-off-by: Philipp Reisner <philipp.reisner@linbit.com>
Signed-off-by: Lars Ellenberg <lars.ellenberg@linbit.com>