locks: give lm_break a return value

Christoph suggests:

   "Add a return value to lm_break so that the lock manager can tell the
    core code "you can delete this lease right now".  That gets rid of
    the games with the timeout which require all kinds of race avoidance
    code in the users."

Do that here and have the nfsd lease break routine use it when it detects
that there was a race between setting up the lease and it being broken.

Signed-off-by: Jeff Layton <jlayton@primarydata.com>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>