FROMLIST: binder: add spinlock to protect binder_node

(from https://patchwork.kernel.org/patch/9817769/

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node->node_lock is used to protect elements of node. No
need to acquire for fields that are invariant: debug_id,
ptr, cookie.

Change-Id: Ib7738e52fa7689767f17136e18cc05ff548b5717
Signed-off-by: Todd Kjos <tkjos@google.com>