xfs: perform dax_device lookup at mount

The ->iomap_begin() operation is a hot path, so cache the
fs_dax_get_by_host() result at mount time to avoid the incurring the
hash lookup overhead on a per-i/o basis.

Reported-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Darrick J. Wong <darrick.wong@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Dan Williams <dan.j.williams@intel.com>