drbd: Track the reasons to suspend IO in dedicated state bits

There are three ways to get IO suspended:

 * Loss of any access to data
 * Fence-peer-handler running
 * User requested to suspend IO

Track those in different bits, so that one condition clearing its
state bit does not interfere with the other two conditions.

Only when the user resumes IO he overrules all three bits.

The fact is hidden from the user, he sees only a single suspend
bit.

Signed-off-by: Philipp Reisner <philipp.reisner@linbit.com>
Signed-off-by: Lars Ellenberg <lars.ellenberg@linbit.com>