drbd: fix for possible deadlock on IO error during resync

Scenario:

Something (say, flush-147:0) is in drbd_al_begin_io,
holding a local_cnt, waiting for the resync to make progress.

Disk fails, worker in after_state_ch does drbd_rs_cancel_all,
then waits for local_cnt to drop to zero.

flush-147:0 is woken by drbd_rs_cancel_all, needs to write an AL
transaction, and queues that on the worker.

Deadlock.

Fix: do not wait in the worker, have put_ldev() trigger the
state change D_FAILED -> D_DISKLESS when necessary.
put_ldev() cannot do the state change directly, as it may or may not
already hold various spinlocks. We queue a short work instead.

Signed-off-by: Philipp Reisner <philipp.reisner@linbit.com>
Signed-off-by: Lars Ellenberg <lars.ellenberg@linbit.com>