netfilter: conntrack: spinlock per cpu to protect special lists.

One spinlock per cpu to protect dying/unconfirmed/template special lists.
(These lists are now per cpu, a bit like the untracked ct)
Add a @cpu field to nf_conn, to make sure we hold the appropriate
spinlock at removal time.

Signed-off-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Signed-off-by: Jesper Dangaard Brouer <brouer@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>
Reviewed-by: Florian Westphal <fw@strlen.de>
Signed-off-by: Pablo Neira Ayuso <pablo@netfilter.org>