netfilter: trivial code cleanup and doc changes

Changes while reading through the netfilter code.

Added hint about how conntrack nf_conn refcnt is accessed.
And renamed repl_hash to reply_hash for readability

Signed-off-by: Jesper Dangaard Brouer <brouer@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>
Reviewed-by: Florian Westphal <fw@strlen.de>
Signed-off-by: Pablo Neira Ayuso <pablo@netfilter.org>