nvme: rename NVME_CTRL_RECONNECTING state to NVME_CTRL_CONNECTING

In pci transport, this state is used to mark the initialization
process. This should be also used in other transports as well.

Signed-off-by: Max Gurtovoy <maxg@mellanox.com>
Reviewed-by: James Smart <james.smart@broadcom.com>
Signed-off-by: Sagi Grimberg <sagi@grimberg.me>