bpf: fix hashmap extra_elems logic

In both kmalloc and prealloc mode the bpf_map_update_elem() is using
per-cpu extra_elems to do atomic update when the map is full.
There are two issues with it. The logic can be misused, since it allows
max_entries+num_cpus elements to be present in the map. And alloc_extra_elems()
at map creation time can fail percpu alloc for large map values with a warn:
WARNING: CPU: 3 PID: 2752 at ../mm/percpu.c:892 pcpu_alloc+0x119/0xa60
illegal size (32824) or align (8) for percpu allocation

The fixes for both of these issues are different for kmalloc and prealloc modes.
For prealloc mode allocate extra num_possible_cpus elements and store
their pointers into extra_elems array instead of actual elements.
Hence we can use these hidden(spare) elements not only when the map is full
but during bpf_map_update_elem() that replaces existing element too.
That also improves performance, since pcpu_freelist_pop/push is avoided.
Unfortunately this approach cannot be used for kmalloc mode which needs
to kfree elements after rcu grace period. Therefore switch it back to normal
kmalloc even when full and old element exists like it was prior to
commit 6c905981 ("bpf: pre-allocate hash map elements").

Add tests to check for over max_entries and large map values.

Reported-by: Dave Jones <davej@codemonkey.org.uk>
Fixes: 6c905981 ("bpf: pre-allocate hash map elements")
Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>
Acked-by: Daniel Borkmann <daniel@iogearbox.net>
Acked-by: Martin KaFai Lau <kafai@fb.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>