IB/mthca: Fix handling of send CQE with error for QPs connected to SRQ

mthca_free_err_wqe() currently treats both send and receive CQEs
identically if a QP is using an SRQ.  But for Tavor hardware, send
CQEs with error can be chained together even if the RQ is part of SRQ,
so we may miss some CQEs.

Fix by following the WQE chain for all send CQEs even for non-SRQ QPs.

This fixes crashes in IPoIB CM:
<https://bugs.openfabrics.org//show_bug.cgi?id=604

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Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@dev.mellanox.co.il>
Signed-off-by: Roland Dreier <rolandd@cisco.com>