netfilter: nat: avoid use of nf_conn_nat extension

successful insert into the bysource hash sets IPS_SRC_NAT_DONE status bit
so we can check that instead of presence of nat extension which requires
extra deref.

Signed-off-by: Florian Westphal <fw@strlen.de>
Signed-off-by: Pablo Neira Ayuso <pablo@netfilter.org>