nullb: support memory backed store

This adds memory backed store in nullb.

User configure 'memory_backed' attribute for this. By default, nullb
disk doesn't use memory backed store.

Based on original patch from Kyungchan Koh

Signed-off-by: Kyungchan Koh <kkc6196@fb.com>
Signed-off-by: Shaohua Li <shli@fb.com>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>