net/smc: process add/delete link messages

Add initial support for the LLC messages ADD LINK and DELETE LINK.
Introduce a link state field. Extend the initial LLC handshake with
ADD LINK processing.

Signed-off-by: Karsten Graul <kgraul@linux.vnet.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: Ursula Braun <ubraun@linux.vnet.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>