md: cleanup mddev flag clear for takeover

Commit 6995f0b2 (md: takeover should clear unrelated bits) clear
unrelated bits, but it's quite fragile. To avoid error in the future,
define a macro for unsupported mddev flags for each raid type and use it
to clear unsupported mddev flags. This should be less error-prone.

Suggested-by: NeilBrown <neilb@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: Shaohua Li <shli@fb.com>