Btrfs: make aux field of ulist 64 bit

Btrfs send/receive uses the aux field to store inode numbers. On
32 bit machines this may become a problem.

Also fix all users of ulist_add and ulist_add_merged.

Reported-by: Arne Jansen <sensille@gmx.net>
Signed-off-by: Alexander Block <ablock84@googlemail.com>