i40e/i40evf: add wait states to NVM state machine

This adds wait states to the NVM update state machine to signify when
waiting for an update operation to finish, whether we're in the middle
of a set of Write operations, or we're now idle but waiting.

Change-ID: Iabe91d6579ef6a2ea560647e374035656211ab43
Signed-off-by: Shannon Nelson <shannon.nelson@intel.com>
Tested-by: Andrew Bowers <andrewx.bowers@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jeff Kirsher <jeffrey.t.kirsher@intel.com>