md/raid1: perform mem allocation before disabling writes during resync.

Though this mem alloc is GFP_NOIO an so will not deadlock, it seems
better to do the allocation before 'raise_barrier' which stops any IO
requests while the resync proceeds.

raid10 always uses this order, so it is at least consistent to do the
same in raid1.

Signed-off-by: NeilBrown <neilb@suse.de>