NVMe: Add discard support for capable devices

This adds discard support to block queues if the nvme device is capable of
deallocating blocks as indicated by the controller's optional command support.
A discard flagged bio request will submit an NVMe deallocate Data Set
Management command for the requested blocks.

Signed-off-by: Keith Busch <keith.busch@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Matthew Wilcox <matthew.r.wilcox@intel.com>