PCI/MSI: Skip disabling disconnected devices

Check the device connected state prior to executing device shutdown
operations or writing MSI messages so that tear down on disconnected
devices completes quicker.

Tested-by: Krishna Dhulipala <krishnad@fb.com>
Signed-off-by: Keith Busch <keith.busch@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Bjorn Helgaas <bhelgaas@google.com>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Wei Zhang <wzhang@fb.com>