Bluetooth: Fix channel check when binding RFCOMM sock

When binding RFCOMM socket with non-zero channel we're checking if
there is already any other socket which has the same channel number
assigned and then fail. This check does not consider situation where
we have another socket connected to remote device on given channel
number in which case we still should be able to bind local socket.

This patch changes __rfcomm_get_sock_by_addr() to return only sockets
in either BT_BOUND or BT_LISTEN states, also name is updated to better
describe what this function does now.

Signed-off-by: Andrzej Kaczmarek <andrzej.kaczmarek@tieto.com>
Signed-off-by: Marcel Holtmann <marcel@holtmann.org>