xfs: log file size updates as part of unwritten extent conversion

If we convert and unwritten extent past the current i_size log the size update
as part of the extent manipulation transactions instead of doing an unlogged
metadata update later.

Reviewed-by: Dave Chinner <dchinner@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Mark Tinguely <tinguely@sgi.com>
Signed-off-by: Ben Myers <bpm@sgi.com>