drbd: debugfs: add in_flight_summary data

To help diagnosing "high latency" or "hung" IO situations on DRBD,
present per drbd resource group a summary of operations currently in progress.

First item is a list of oldest drbd_request objects
waiting for various things:
 * still being prepared
 * waiting for activity log transaction
 * waiting for local disk
 * waiting to be sent
 * waiting for peer acknowledgement ("receive ack", "write ack")
 * waiting for peer epoch acknowledgement ("barrier ack")

Signed-off-by: Philipp Reisner <philipp.reisner@linbit.com>
Signed-off-by: Lars Ellenberg <lars.ellenberg@linbit.com>