drbd: make OOS_HANDED_TO_NETWORK its own case

OOS_HANDED_TO_NETWORK should not be grouped with the various
*_CANCELED/*_FAILED cases.
Also, not only clear the RQ_NET_QUEUED flag, but also mark it RQ_NET_DONE,
so it can be distinguished from a local-only request even after that.

Signed-off-by: Philipp Reisner <philipp.reisner@linbit.com>
Signed-off-by: Lars Ellenberg <lars.ellenberg@linbit.com>