IB/qib: Remove atomic_inc_not_zero() from QP RCU

Follow Documentation/RCU/rcuref.txt guidance in removing
atomic_inc_not_zero() from QP RCU implementation.

This patch also removes an unneeded synchronize_rcu() in the add path.

Reviewed-by: Dean Luick <dean.luick@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Mike Marciniszyn <mike.marciniszyn@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Roland Dreier <roland@purestorage.com>