blk-mq: End unstarted requests on a dying queue

Requests that haven't been started prior to a queue dying can be ended
in error without waiting for them to start and time out.

Signed-off-by: Keith Busch <keith.busch@intel.com>

Added code comment to explain why this is done.

Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@fb.com>