kernfs: implement kernfs_{de|re}activate[_self]()

This patch implements four functions to manipulate deactivation state
- deactivate, reactivate and the _self suffixed pair.  A new fields
kernfs_node->deact_depth is added so that concurrent and nested
deactivations are handled properly.  kernfs_node->hash is moved so
that it's paired with the new field so that it doesn't increase the
size of kernfs_node.

A kernfs user's lock would normally nest inside active ref but during
removal the user may want to perform kernfs_remove() while holding the
said lock, which would introduce a reverse locking dependency.  This
function can be used to break such reverse dependency by allowing
deactivation step to performed separately outside user's critical
section.

This will also be used implement kernfs_remove_self().

Signed-off-by: Tejun Heo <tj@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Greg Kroah-Hartman <gregkh@linuxfoundation.org>