virtio: fail adding buffer on broken queues.

Heinz points out that adding buffers to a broken virtqueue (which
should "never happen") still works.  Failing allows drivers to detect
and complain about broken devices.

Now drivers are robust, we can add this extra check.

Reported-by: Heinz Graalfs <graalfs@linux.vnet.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: Rusty Russell <rusty@rustcorp.com.au>