slab,rcu: don't assume the size of struct rcu_head

The size of struct rcu_head may be changed. When it becomes larger,
it may pollute the data after struct slab.

Acked-by: Christoph Lameter <cl@linux.com>
Signed-off-by: Lai Jiangshan <laijs@cn.fujitsu.com>
Signed-off-by: Pekka Enberg <penberg@kernel.org>