e1000e: do not initiate autonegotiation during OEM configuration

When configuring the OEM bits in the PHY on 82577/82578, do not restart
autonegotiation if the firmware is blocking it (e.g. when an IDE-R session
is active) because the link must not go down.

Signed-off-by: Bruce Allan <bruce.w.allan@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jeff Kirsher <jeffrey.t.kirsher@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>