IB/mlx5: Fix MODIFY_QP command input structure

Make MODIFY_QP command input structure compliant to specification

Fixes: e126ba97 ('mlx5: Add driver for Mellanox Connect-IB adapters')
Signed-off-by: Artemy Kovalyov <artemyko@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Leon Romanovsky <leon@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Doug Ledford <dledford@redhat.com>