netfilter: nfnetlink: add rcu_dereference_protected() helpers

Add a lockdep_nfnl_is_held() function and a nfnl_dereference() macro for
RCU dereferences protected by a NFNL subsystem mutex.

Signed-off-by: Patrick McHardy <kaber@trash.net>
Signed-off-by: Pablo Neira Ayuso <pablo@netfilter.org>