btrfs: send: handle unexpected data in header buffer in begin_cmd()

[ Upstream commit e80e3f732cf53c64b0d811e1581470d67f6c3228 ]

Change BUG_ON to a proper error handling in the unlikely case of seeing
data when the command is started. This is supposed to be reset when the
command is finished (send_cmd, send_encoded_extent).

Signed-off-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: Sasha Levin <sashal@kernel.org>