nvmet: support fabrics sq flow control

Technical proposal 8005 "fabrics SQ flow control" introduces a mode
where a host and controller agree to omit sq_head pointer updates
when sending nvme completions.

In case the host indicated desire to operate in this mode (connect attribute)
the controller will return back a connect completion with sq_head value
of 0xffff as indication that it will omit sq_head pointer updates.

This mode saves us an atomic update in the I/O path.

Reviewed-by: Hannes Reinecke <hare@suse.com>
[hch: suggested better implementation]
Signed-off-by: Sagi Grimberg <sagi@grimberg.me>
Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>