[media] media: ti-vpe: vpdma: add support for user specified stride

This patch introduce the needed vpdma API changes to support
user space specified stride instead of forcing a driver calculated
one.

Signed-off-by: Benoit Parrot <bparrot@ti.com>
Signed-off-by: Mauro Carvalho Chehab <mchehab@s-opensource.com>