btrfs: move the space info update macro to space-info.h

Also rename it to btrfs_space_info_update_* so it's clear what we're
updating.

Reviewed-by: Nikolay Borisov <nborisov@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: Josef Bacik <josef@toxicpanda.com>
Signed-off-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>