drm/amd/display: break up plane disable and disconnect in set mode

Signed-off-by: Eric Yang <Eric.Yang2@amd.com>
Reviewed-by: Tony Cheng <Tony.Cheng@amd.com>
Acked-by: Harry Wentland <Harry.Wentland@amd.com>
Signed-off-by: Alex Deucher <alexander.deucher@amd.com>