fuse: simplify 'nofail' request

Instead of complex games with a reserved request, just use __GFP_NOFAIL.

Both calers (flush, readdir) guarantee that connection was already
initialized, so no need to wait for fc->initialized.

Also remove unneeded clearing of FR_BACKGROUND flag.

Signed-off-by: Miklos Szeredi <mszeredi@redhat.com>