scsi: lpfc: Fix infinite wait when driver unregisters a remote NVME port.

When unregistering a remote port the lpfc driver would eventually wait
for the remoteport_unreg done callback. But the driver never completed
the io aborts that would allow the connections to terminate thus the
unreg done callback was never issued.  Turns out the coding style of the
driver allowed for the wait to occur on the same cpu that the deferred
isr is called on. The blocking for the wait, blocked the isr, and as the
isr didn't run, the io aborts wouldn't finish.

Turns out there was never a good reason to block waiting for the unreg
done in the first place. The driver can continue execution and the ref
counting within the driver will do the right thing.

Resolve by removing the wait and patching up a few cases where the ref
counting didn't look right - mainly cases where the remote port comes
back before the aborts had completed and the unreg done had been
called. Additionally, a few places which used pointer values to guide
driver actions weren't protected by lock, so correct those.

Signed-off-by: Dick Kennedy <dick.kennedy@broadcom.com>
Signed-off-by: James Smart <james.smart@broadcom.com>
Reviewed-by: Hannes Reinecke <hare@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: Martin K. Petersen <martin.petersen@oracle.com>