block: remove deadline __deadline manipulation helpers

No users left since the removal of the legacy request interface, we can
remove all the magic bit stealing now and make it a normal field.

But use WRITE_ONCE/READ_ONCE on the new deadline field, given that we
don't seem to have any mechanism to guarantee a new value actually
gets seen by other threads.

Reviewed-by: Hannes Reinecke <hare@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>