[SCSI] sas: fix remote phy removal

Brown paperbag bug:  sas_rphy_delete was ordered completely
wrong.  Fix it up to be the same order as sas_phy_delete or
fc_rport_terminate and fix rphy objects that leaked after module
removal.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: James Bottomley <James.Bottomley@SteelEye.com>