UPSTREAM: wireguard: receive: drop handshakes if queue lock is contended

If we're being delivered packets from multiple CPUs so quickly that the
ring lock is contended for CPU tries, then it's safe to assume that the
queue is near capacity anyway, so just drop the packet rather than
spinning. This helps deal with multicore DoS that can interfere with
data path performance. It _still_ does not completely fix the issue, but
it again chips away at it.

Bug: 254441685
Reported-by: Streun Fabio <fstreun@student.ethz.ch>
Fixes: e7096c131e51 ("net: WireGuard secure network tunnel")
Signed-off-by: Jason A. Donenfeld <Jason@zx2c4.com>
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>
(cherry picked from commit fb32f4f606c17b869805d7cede8b03d78339b50a)
Signed-off-by: Lee Jones <joneslee@google.com>
Change-Id: Ifa280bd0891b5987c672b24d9800afa44e7dc12c