IB/rdmavt: Use correct numa node for SRQ allocation

Normal receive queue allocation ensures that kernel receive queues
are allocated on the local numa node. Shared receive queues
do not behave the same way.

Ensure that kernel shared receive queues are allocated on the device
local node.

Reviewed-by: Sebastian Sanchez <sebastian.sanchez@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Mike Marciniszyn <mike.marciniszyn@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Dennis Dalessandro <dennis.dalessandro@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Doug Ledford <dledford@redhat.com>