xfs: pass transaction to dfops reset/move helpers

All callers pass ->t_dfops of the associated transactions. Refactor
the helpers to receive the transactions and facilitate further
cleanups between xfs_defer_ops and xfs_trans.

Signed-off-by: Brian Foster <bfoster@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Darrick J. Wong <darrick.wong@oracle.com>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Darrick J. Wong <darrick.wong@oracle.com>