vfio: Introduce vfio_set_irqs_validate_and_prepare()

Vendor driver using mediated device framework would use same mechnism to
validate and prepare IRQs. Introducing this function to reduce code
replication in multiple drivers.

Signed-off-by: Kirti Wankhede <kwankhede@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Neo Jia <cjia@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Alex Williamson <alex.williamson@redhat.com>