nbd: only set sndtimeo if we have a timeout set

A user reported that he was getting immediate disconnects with my
sndtimeo patch applied.  This is because by default the OSS nbd client
doesn't set a timeout, so we end up setting the sndtimeo to 0, which of
course means we have send errors a lot.  Instead only set our sndtimeo
if the user specified a timeout, otherwise we'll just wait forever like
we did previously.

Fixes: dc88e34d ("nbd: set sk->sk_sndtimeo for our sockets")
Reported-by: Adam Borowski <kilobyte@angband.pl>
Signed-off-by: Josef Bacik <jbacik@fb.com>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>